Hey Pals!! Hope you’re doing great! Today, I’ll be sharing 7 Mistakes that I think you might be making as a new blogger.
The urge to write this post has been growing at a rapid speed so here I am, writing it instead of doing Constructor Programs in Java. Oh, fun times. Gonna fail on Sunday Test, but there are more important things to worry about now, aren’t there 🙂? Let’s get started then!
Note: This might be a long post, and if you want to skim read (though I would appreciate it if you don’t do that, the full post might help you 😗), I’ve highlighted the important points from each section. Also, this is a discussion post, so feel free to share your views in the comments.
Disclaimer: I am, in no way, insulting any blogger out there. I am not an expert in blogging. What follows are personal opinions and thoughts and I do not mean to hurt anybody.
1: You post too much random stuff

Posting very random stuff like weekly check-ins, quotes, monthly life goals, reviews of every book you’ve read, telling the readers every little detail about why you were not active the WHOLE DAY (omg, what a big deal 😱), and other similar stuff like that, is not a good way to start a blog and expect people to follow. When you are new and not many people follow you or know you for that matter, there’s a high chance nobody would read such a post just because they wouldn’t care. Always start big, so it leaves an impression on the reader. That’s not to say you shouldn’t post quotes and the like at all, but make sure that you don’t post them so much that your blog gets overcrowded by them otherwise you will be just another blogger out there, instead of being a blogger people read blogs by.
2: You’re not confident
I don’t know why many people ignore this point but I believe that this one is very essential.

You may have the most beautiful site with the perfect theme but honestly, it will still only be worth it as long you are confident with your posts. Don’t be too scared in posting whatever you want, don’t say you agree with something if you don’t, and most importantly, be proud of your own opinions. Make sure you don’t appear self-doubtful or indecisive through your words. For instance, hosting a contest and not even having a name for it or using too many phrases depicting how you think you are doing an awful job writing your post will turn off your readers. If you don’t love your post, how can you expect others to?
Writing without confidence strips away the power of holding the readers’ attention. If you write like that, your words are merely words and they are just out there to be seen, not read. This may not seem like a big point but believe me, you can have the trashy default theme but I would still follow you if you write with passion.
3: You’re not responding to comments in the right way

If you get a comment on your post, and you have the time to respond to it when you see it, do it. Don’t just like the comment and never respond, or respond after so long that I don’t even remember commenting in the first place anymore. Nobody likes a person with an attitude. If you’re not responding well to comments, you will find that not many people would interact with you, some might even unfollow you. So, never ignore a comment.
Not to mention, please respond genuinely to comments. Do not try to sound too happy or too sweet, it will do nothing but piss off the readers. I’ve seen people responding to a simple “nice poem” with a 100-word comment in which they go on to praise the person on what a great soul they are and how they will make a change in the world blah blah blah…STOP! Who are you trying to fool? It’s the 21st century, everybody knows the difference between genuine praise and buttering.
4: You either post too less or too much
Both can be very annoying, both to the readers and gradually, to you. So, you’ve just started blogging and you are filled with ideas. On your second day, you have already managed to write 12 posts! So, what do you do? You post them every day. Wrong! This is the greatest factor that will affect your consistency.

This is wrong because a) You are new to blogging and not many people follow you right now, so you’re just letting all your good ideas go to waste, b) In the excitement to publish your post, you’ve made tons of errors, that only annoy the readers, and c) There will come a point when you would be too demotivated or busy to write anything. In such a case, having a draft ready at hand is an amazing way to stay consistent. But you’ve already posted all your drafts, so you will eventually have nothing to post.
Posting too less is just as bad. Why have a blog when you’re not giving your readers enough content to read? In my opinion, have a schedule, or at least know how many times you want to post per week. I love 3 times a week, even though I post only twice because I won’t be able to keep up with 3. You can even post daily if you want to, just make sure you have enough posts saved for later.
5: The title of your post is not appealing

This is a very important point, you need to have a good title, one that makes the readers stop and open your post. The worst kind of title in my opinion will have the word “random” or any of its synonyms in it. Nobody wants to read something random, especially not when their Reader is filled with posts that sound way cooler. Even if your post does have some random stuff in it, then also never title it that way.
Hugh @ Hugh’s Views and News did an amazing post on how to title a good blog post. Check it out to get some good ideas.
There are many great ways to title a post. Just make sure it’s not like every other title out there, make sure it stands out. Make sure your title is centred around a specific topic instead of being very random. For example- a post titled- 7 Reasons Why I Love Marvel would be way better than one titled- My Love for Marvel. Prefer- 5 Amazing Books I Read This Month over Books I Read This Month. You can yourself judge which sounds more specific.
6: Your site is not properly organized

WordPress provides you with tons of features to enhance your site, and you need to make sure you’re making good use of all of them. Watch some YouTube tutorials to learn how to set up a site, what theme to choose, how to customize the theme as per your need, how to create a pingback, etc, It’s a very tiring job, believe me. I wish I had done that earlier in blogging but I had no idea then. So, I don’t want you to make the same mistake. Do not hesitate to reach out to people if you need help.
Another thing that I find essential is using lots of headings, images and graphics in your posts. Oh, and also, separators! I LOVE SEPARATORS 😍. I follow every blogger who uses them 😍. Yes, that sounds crazy, but it’s true 😍. The reason behind this is people like to have the information provided to them in small amounts. Imagine if I hadn’t divided this post by using headings and instead written it in three long, boring paragraphs, would you still have read it? Hell no. Using images, GIFs and graphics is also a great way to beautify your post and make it look more lively. But don’t use them too much either or people would be annoyed at the lack of originality.
7: You run for followers
This is the most common thing every blogger would advise you about. But it’s also really necessary. Never run for followers. If you’ve even got 1 person who reads your posts, then be happy about that. When I was new, I set a goal to reach 100 followers. And believe me, once I did, I was so content that I never set another goal. If you’re not content with the number of people who read your posts, you’re never gonna find joy in writing. So, set a goal for yourself, and when you do achieve it, be content with it. Don’t compare yourself with others.

What you should do is explore as much of the community as possible. Search for topics that interest you and follow people whose posts you like. Do comment genuine stuff on their posts. A simple “nice post” is not enough. Never say- “Lovely post, do follow my blog too.” Instead, say- “Oh same, even I think infinity war was way better than endgame, haha. I did a similar post too, do check it out if you want.” Never beg people to follow you. It will never get you any followers. It’ll only get you fake ones who couldn’t care less about anything you write.
I’m gonna be very honest, the list just goes on 😂. There are so many more points I want to cover but the post will be too long then. So I’m stopping here. Do reach out to me if you have any doubts, questions or suggestions. Once again, I hope I did not sound too extreme as that was not the intention at all.
Also, just remember, don’t give up on blogging. Success can’t come in a day, or a week, or a month even. Keep up your consistency, have fun with blogging and don’t give up, and one day, you’ll be a successful blogger, just you wait.
That’s all for today. I hope you enjoyed this post. Let me know what is something you wish you had known as a new blogger? And also lemme know if this post helped you in some way, it’ll make my day 😃. Stay tuned for more fun posts.

I struggle with making graphics and staying organized.
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You can make graphics using Canva. Have you tried it? Or for starters, you can just use pics available on Pinterest if that works.
As for staying organized, I recommend trying out some new themes, maybe Baskerville 2. It’s a good theme and then you can edit it in customize themes. Do watch a YouTube video for more specific information if still in doubt. And reach out to me if you need any other help.
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Two things:
I have a phone, and Canva doesn’t work so good on a phone
And I’m not allowed to get Pinterest
Changing themes is a good idea tho, thanks!
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Oh, I see. I’ve tried Canva on phone sometimes, though it’s a bit inconvenient, I say you should do it if nothing else works.
Pleasure! 😀
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Yeah, probably will
Ditto! 💙
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Oh, and I’m not allowed to watch YouTube
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Oh well, if you have any other doubts, do let me know then.
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Of course, and thanks 💕
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My pleasure! 😄❤
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Wow, Nehal, you are such a great soul and will make such a change in the world!! ❤❤❤❤❤ I am absolutely in awe of this post!
(In all seriousness, though, this is some great advice! I could definitely have used some of this when I was starting out 😊 As for the best advice I have for newbies, I think it would be to just write about what you care about and not try to post something because you think it will get lots of views. There’s nothing that draws me in like a post where you can see that the blogger behind it genuinely excited about what they’re writing!)
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Lmao, I was seriously shocked at first at your reply and then slowly it made sense 😂.
Tho I am s great soul, that’s undeniable 😇.
Thanks so much, glad you liked it 😁. Yeah exactly, posting out of obligation would just make the blogger find blogging boring and dull. However posting what you want is the best way for the readers to even know the blogger well.
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I’m just quoting the words your truly great soul blessed us with 🤷♀️😁
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Yeah, I figured 😂😂🤣
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Great tips, thank you for sharing! 🙂
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My pleasure!! 😄
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Well , I advise ….. GO AND STUDYYYYYY , Meri naak Mat katwana!!! Programs kar !! 🙂
I’ll read d post in the morning, just too sleepy 😑
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Seriously dude 😑.
I did Hindi project by the way, so… 😗.
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Ha but I want u to score well in your test , and not FAIL
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Seriously, I won’t fail, believe me 😐
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Any new bloggers out there !!!, please read this post, this is must known information for all
Kudos to you Nehal 👏 you summed it up all perfectly 👏
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Aah, thank you so much, Di! This means a lot 😃🙈❤
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This was such a great, encouraging post! I definitely am still figuring out how many posts a week I can handle consistently. Thanks for the tips!
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I hope you find something that works for you. Pleasure!! 😄
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Great post!! Totally agree with all of these points, especially point 4 heh. When I started blogging ‘properly’ I had so many ideas I almost made the mistake of posting them all at once lol I’m so glad I didn’t do that.
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I would’ve done that too when I made so many drafts but luckily a friend adviced me not to 😂.
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Although I’m not a new blogger, I could definitely use this advice. Even now as a middle kid blogger, I could still use these tips! I need to post more consistently and find a schedule so I don’t post too sporadically. My mind is all over the place. The first four tops were dead on. Sometimes I have trouble replying to comments.
Thanks for the tips Nehal!
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I’m glad it helped! I hope you find a schedule for yourself and work it all out 😁.
My pleasure! 😁
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Thank you!
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I completely agree with all that you’ve said. I hope this will reach many new bloggers. I have seen more than a couple of them comment on my posts with nothing other than a “I’m new to WordPress. Please follow me!”. It irritates me to no end. No only didn’t they read my post or leave a thoughtful comment, instead they’re canvasing for followers.
You have compiled and summarised most of the important points, Nehal. Great job!
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Yes, I know right. It’s he most annoying thing! Thanks Di, I’m glad you liked it 😃
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Yeah. It’s the most annoying thing ever. These days, I just send them directly to spam. You’re very welcome, dear ❤️🤗
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Lol 😂.
Have a good day!!
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You too! Hope you have a great day
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This is very true! You have summed it up perfectly +
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Thanks Akshita, or should I say…AK17 😏?
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You can call me anything, I don’t mind😗
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Wow, that’s nice….*thinks of an evil name*
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Go ahead🙂
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Nah I won’t 😂. I like AK17
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Ok😂
I like that name too!
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All rights and credits go to the wonderful Sep.
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Wonderful, sure 🙂
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Aye aye
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As a new blogger…I’ll make sure I keep these points in mind…Thanks!! {No buttering…Genuinely Thanks 🤗}
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Yeah, I know you’re not buttering 😂. My pleasure!!
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😅
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Ahh..I remember being really confused over pingbacks and trackbacks, wish I had someone to explain them to me.
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Same! I couldn’t understand the difference between copying the link from the reader and copying from the site 😂🤐
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hahahahahhaaaaa
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This is such a good post, and so helpful too!! I really enjoyed reading it! Also, I am guilty of not replying to comments right away- I am either too busy or too lazy😅😅
Do follow my blog🙂🙂
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I’m glad you like it, Riddhi! Yeah well, that happens, don’t worry 😂.
Sure, will do🙂🙂
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I really need to work on getting more organized on my side so it’s less stressful long-term.. but it has been a wonderful experience so far!
And I wish I would have known how much trouble switching to my own domain would be.. I still can’t figure out why my site is no longer getting followers. 😅
This is such a fantastically helpful post, thank you so much!
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Yes, I had to go through several site crisises too until I was actually satisfied 😂. You’ll figure something out. Keep exploring more of the community and I guess it’ll work alright.
My pleasure, Sheri! I’m glad it helped 😀
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That seems to be the norm! But we’re doing what we can and so many wonderful people have been helping.. I’m confident we’ll figure something out.
Thank you!
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Yeah, we definitely will 😁.
Pleasure!!
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The power of positive thinking!
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Exactly!!
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Wow I love this post! It’s so accurate in so many ways. I can’t understand why there are some who post 5 times a day… and I tend not to read a single of the posts because it seems spammy. I also learned quite early on that engagement is really important because people hate to be ignored. I sometimes don’t check my comments on time and see a drop in my engagement on following posts when that happens. I
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Yes, I know right! Even if the content has good quality, it is still pretty frustrating. And yeah, I learned it through various blogs too that you need to properly engage with your readers.
Thanks for reading 😃.
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nehal!! it’s been almost a year since i’ve been blogging, and i still feel like i do some of these things. hahaha this post straight up called me out!!
thank you to your sweet, kind, and generous soul for these tips 😂😂
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Lol 😂.
My pleasure, dearest, most awesome and amazingly talented Ahaana 😇🤣🤣
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Good post Nehal!
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Thanks a lot 😊
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Welcome 🙂
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Amazing tips nehal..! So interesting and great post..!😊
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Thanks Filarance ☺. Glad you liked it!
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It’s my pleasure my dear..!
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Not a new blogger anymore– but still some great reminders!:)
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Thanks a lot 😄
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Some great points! I really need to learn how to use WordPress better. I do find it difficult to navigate at times 🙈
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Glad you liked them!
Don’t we all!? 😂 WordPress confuses the hell outta me. Just a few days ago, it posted some of my drafts without me doing anything 😐.
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totally agree with you…
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These points were valid and useful…Nice post!
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Thanks a lot, Maya!! 😄
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Lol….its maha tho😆 and you’re welcome!
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Oh, I’m so sorry! 😲 it was a typo, so sorry 😭😭
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haha..its okay
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nehal! thank you for all the advice in this post, even though i’ve been blogging for a while i’m still guilty of some, namely inconsistent posting ahaha, i’ll definitely need to find a schedule that suits me as you’ve mentioned… great post ❤️
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My pleasure! I hope you figure out something that you are comfortable with 😁
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hmm…i like your frankness Cherelle…dont’ feel condemned, just decide to go with the flow as and when you get inspired….it’s fine to pile up blog posts in your head if you have a good memory and then take time to actually type them out one at a time…else it helps to scribble down a blog idea someplace where you can retrieve it and then post it as you find the time…and mood..
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Thank you for this helpful post. I am new to book blogging, literally started last week. if you have a moment to look at my blog I would be grateful – hopefully I haven’t broken any of these rules yet (I don’t think). Thanks Kat
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My pleasure, Kat!
Haha, sure, don’t worry 😅. I’ll go head to your blog.
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the newer the better the older the merrier…..welcome to the blogosphere…..i wish you well
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Hi! I’m new to blogging and WordPress. I set it all up literally just yesterday so this really resonated with me!
After writing my second post I had decided I was going to keep it to post later… Now I definitely will! Thanks!
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Thanks a lot, glad you liked it! And yes, good choice I say 😄.
Pleasure!!
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Hi, and thanks for this post. I like the point about organization especially and could probably benefit from that advice. I also have a question, if you don’t mind: How long would you say it takes, on average, to get comments and engagement on a new blog? Mine is almost two months old, but I often feel like I’m doing all this work that no one is even reading. I’m just curious how common this is in the beginning. Thanks again!
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Hello! Glad you liked the advice, hope it helps you.
Also, I should say, it does take a while to get engagement on a blog. There are blogs I know that have been around for years and yet still don’t get enough people, and there are others that manage it within a few months. So I would say that it is pretty common, and you just need to keep going. I had pretty much the same number of followers as you two months into blogging. Plus, if you wanna speed things up, what you can do is share your blog on other social media, share with people you know, and just discover more and more blogs yourself, it helps grow the audience.
Hope this helps you 😄. Do reach out if you have any more doubts. And my pleasure!! Thanks so much for reading.
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Thank you so much for this! Yes, it does help. It’s good to hear this is fairly common because I wasn’t sure. I don’t use social media anymore, which is one reason my blog has been slow to grow, so I might have to try that route. I will take your advice and keep going. Thanks again for the encouragement.
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My pleasure! 😀
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am i glad to see this comment!!!! It’s a place i’ve been before and as i type this out my blog is about to hit 1000 followers…..and yes, i would be so happy to share how i reached this number with some of you provided i know you are serious about your blogging journey as me….
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Hi Nehal! Thanks for this very helpful post. I just started yesterday and your words work really awesome for me, greatly uplifting my confidence. Thanks!😇
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Oh gosh, thanks so much! I am so glad that my tips could helo you. And congrats on your new blog, Aayushi!! I might as well go check it out 😁.
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Thanks buddy! 😄
Yeah, sure! Always welcome to my world..
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Nehal dear, you did a really awesome job of uplifting so many with this post…well done.
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Thank you so much! 😊
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